Hello Friends and Family, I was just released from the hospital yesterday and will be recovering from knee surgery for the next 4-8 weeks. The degenerative arthritis combined with many falls from the crazy Korean sidewalks had all but destroyed the insides of my knee and my knee cap. I now have a "pin bar" where they took out all of the mush that used to be tendons and cartlidge and I will be walking on 2 crutches, no weight-bearing, for the next four weeks. Although I always use University hospitals, the experience is quite different from American hospitals. One good thing is that they don't charge you for every cotton ball and injection you receive while you are staying in the hospital. What would've cost upwards of $5,000-$7,000 in the US, was a total of about $1400 dollars for me here. I do have very good insurance here as well for $50/month (my 1/2)
I was first given a choice of rooms: 6 beds in one room of mixed men, women and children, they were out of the 4 beds per room, so I took the only other option, 2 beds per room. Visiting hours are just about anytime between 9am and 11pm and everyone in the whole family and circle of friends seems to be there the entire time allowed.
My first roommate was a grandmother with a cast from her hip to her toes. She was not allowed out of her bed at all. She was also very hard of hearing andhad the TV up so loud my ears ached. They have many kindly older women, who, for a small fee, will stay with you 24/7 to do everything from helping you eat to changing dirty diapers (and man, granny had some really stinky ones!) I asked for the aircon to be left on overnite and granny thought she was an ice cube when she woke up, so they moved me to the next room (empty) known as "the cold room". Later that afternoon, I got another roomie, a 24-yr old Korean girl who just happened to be an anethesiologist at the same hospital. She likes it cold as well. Her boyfriend came for breakfast and dinner every day, and I began greeting him 'hey honey' every day. In addition to the regular refrigerator, there was a huge "kimchi" refrigerator and the rooms and halls reeked of the stuff at every mealtime. I had ordered the western menu, but just the smell of food made me sick the first 4 days, so I ate a little breadstuff my 5 friends gave me that visited me only once, the day after my surgery. Unfortunately all my friends are teachers and this and last week was 1/2 year grade reporting and comments for all the students so everyone was extremely busy.
I finally paid one of the kindly older ladies to go out and get me some coca cola because all they had in the hospital was Pepsi, yuck! The western food was so strange that I changed to the Korean menu and finally ate for 2 days this last Monday and Tuesday. I lost 4 kgs while in the hospital. The doctor would not let me take any of my stomach meds and it took my stomach bleeding and my refusal to eat before he allowed me back on them.
Several of my students called and informed me that everyone was asking about me and wanted to know if I was alright and when would I return to school. The doctor said no work for 4 weeks, but I want to make a good faith effort and try to work Mon through Wed sitting down. If I can't do it, I can't, but I need to at least try.
I was first promised that I would be released after 7 days, then it was "tomorrow" for the next 3 days. I finally got released Thursday, after a custom knee brace was delivered. I had to take a taxi home and pay the taxi driver $5 to help me get my things up to my 3rd floor apt. I am still a bit sick at my stomach and the morphine isn't totally out of my system, so I decided to take my doctors advice and stay home at least today, hoping I could get some much needed sleep this weekend. I could not get a decent night's sleep in the hospital on the "cardboard" beds until the last night when they gave me a sleep aid that knocked me out until 10am on my release day.
My Korean sister and her daughters were taking care of my cats and I got home to a full litter box, no water in any of the 3 bowls and kitty litter in the food dish. Since they are going to be watching my cats the 3 weeks I will be in America starting next week, I think I'd better write complete instructions and let Jeong Yun translate into Korean for me before I leave. As it turns out, I only went over my sick days by 6 days so I will still have a healthy paycheck this month. I used a lot of money leftover from books, etc from my financial aid from the last 2 terms and all the money I had to pay my hospital bill. Between my friends and the faculty membership fund, I was given $100 for extra expenses for the next week until I go to America. All the teachers are worried about me as well, and many wanted to come by and visit me today. Thankfully Jeong Yun knew I would be in my pajamas with a not perfectly clean house so she talked them into sending their "best wishes" with her and she came over this afternoon with some gifts of bread and things this afternoon. I had no groceries when I arrived home yesterday and I asked my one friend that has a car if she could take me to emart. She offered to buy them online from a list, but called me an hour later from Emart and told me she would be over in 20 minutes. Kerry, is very kind and I don't know how I will thank all of my kind friends and colleagues. I have only 6 days left 'till I go to the US and Sally's husband (my Korean sister) will take me to the airport early Thursday as my plane leaves at 7 or 8am. Ironically, I will arrive in Dallas the exact date and time that I leave Korea! The Monday after my return to Korea, I begin teaching summer English camp with my best friend, Jeong Yun. Since my payday is the day AFTER I leave, she will pay my bills for me and transfer some money to my Mom's acct in TX if I need extra money. I asked her today to invite the Principal and Vice Principals to observe a couple of my classes on the 3rd or 4th day of summer camp, just to prove that I have 100% ability to teach well and complete another year (or more) with Muhak Elementary school. The whole reason I got the surgery was so that I could continue to work there until I decide to leave Korea. I really love the children and my colleagues there and have no desire to go anywhere else after the experiences I have had in the 4 years I've been over here. Following are some pix of my Korean family and the hospital. Enjoy and I will see or talk to all of you soon. Love, Wendy